Self Love vs Self Pity...



    Unnecessary criticism
    verbal cruelty, sarcasm
    and malicious gossip 
    demeans the speaker
    making them less,
    darkening their aura
    and encourages a habit to form
    but even their unspoken words
    travel through the
    ‘song of the universe’
    to find a recipient


    Do you choose to accept
    these feelings of wickedness
    that cloud your aura
    reinforcing other nasty comments
    you may of heard from a neighbour
    a friend or dear one?
    Do you allow these untruths
    to overwrite the magnificence
    of who you truly are
    and begin to believe
    you are terrible
    and life is against you?


    Do you allow the words and thoughts
    to hit your heart like an arrow
    sending you into a panic attack
    and a journey of self-pity?
    Or do you choose not to accept
    these feelings of wickedness
    stand confident and worthy
    knowing of your magnificence
    and like a boomerang
    the words and thoughts
    are immediately
    ‘returned to sender’


    Sometimes though
    you can turn on yourself
    with a destructive attitude
    and words of doom
    filling yourself
    with toxic waste
    and having no resistance
    you can find yourself
    within no time at all
    wallowing in self-pity


    Only when you take quiet time
    to relax and breathe
    to feel your feelings
    explore, connect and listen
    to your inner guidance
    can you begin to understand
    how responsible you are
    for all your thoughts, words and deeds
    that determine your journey
    of Self Love or Self Pity


    So remember
    the sorrier you feel for yourself
    the worse your life becomes
    AND in each moment
    you have a choice
    to change and choose
    Self Love over Self Pity
    and live an enchanting life
    shining your light brightly
    as Your Magnificent Self

    ©Barbara Franken 2013


    Barbara Franken… Creative Visionary & Master Creator
    Inspiring New Energy Consciousness & Multi-Dimensional Living


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