are normally really nice people who give generously and unconditionally but if we throw fear into the mix then this is “The Pleaser” who cannot say no to people for fear of being unliked.
When I was younger, I believed that if I achieved well at school, work or even in competitions I would be loved.
My biggest disappointment was that people did not treat me as I did others. I had high expectations of myself, which meant I expected also from others.
From aged 21, I travelled the world at sea working on both cruise ships and yachts. Excelling to the Purser position but still I felt inadequate compared to others. Running around at 100 mph and constantly pushing myself to prove my worth.
I became overwhelmed, my confidence shattered, unbeknown that it was my repeating patterns at the cause of it, I blamed external circumstances for my shortfalls.
Previously I had psychotherapy sessions that helped me a lot, but coaching took it to the next level for me. It’s opened up my blind spots, and allowed me to work on healing on all levels.
Having been given a whole new set of skills and resources that I didn’t know existed inside of me.
Practising my skills on some wonderful coaches over a period of 9 months, I am now a Level 5 Qualified Life Coach with NLP Practitioner tools to support you on your journey.
I absolutely love coaching, to be able to be part of someone’s personal development and to see the smile on their face when they realise everything is already inside of them to regain their confidence, self-belief and live life more abundantly.
As a life path number 9 “The Humanitarian”, helping others change their lives is at the very core of what I love, my work makes an impact to others every single day and this is priceless
Contact me to book your sessions.